I stood in the rain near the passenger side of my car, talking to my then fiancée. She was dressed only in a t-shirt and jeans, her favorite thing to wear, and my favorite thing to see her in, although that was the issue at the moment. It was a chilly, rainy night, and we […]
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Two weeks ago, I officiated a celebration of love ceremony. As an ordained pastor, I have stood in front of couples at some of the most significant moments of their lives. But this ceremony was different. I asked the groomsmen to do something they had never been asked to do before. Each one walked forward […]
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Imagine you are walking down the street. Someone you have not seen in seven years walks up, shakes your hand, and pauses. "Hey, great to see you. You have a tail? Weird. Good seeing you!" And they walk away. Who is crazy here? Obviously them. You keep walking. Another person (someone else you have not […]
FEED WHAT YOU LOVE November 5, 2025 Rk Springfield 5:51 pm One of my earliest memories is of being around 4 years old, sitting in my great-grandmothers’ kitchen as she prepared breakfast. She was an amazing cook, and I used to love the smell of her chuck steak and biscuits, especially her biscuits. They had […]
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How Is The View? Protocol #2 December 5, 2022 Rk Springfield 6:45 pm “That’s not how a proper lady behaves.” “Big boys don’t cry,” “We are all born into sin.” “What will the neighbors say?” And on and on it goes. In my book, ‘The Human Experience: The Four Armies of the Earth’, my first
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Don’t Compare Hell’s October 31, 2025 tmarlette 7:06 pm Years ago, I found myself living in Dayton, Ohio. It was during what I call my ‘Highway to Heaven’ years. Those were the years I spent moving around the country for about a year, trying to learn how to be better. (Highway to Heaven was a
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Here’s The Situation October 31, 2025 tmarlette 7:17 pm I like buffalo wings. “I mean, she just doesn’t make me happy anymore y’know?” my friend, (I’ll call him ‘Ian), said as we sat in a restaurant eating them. Never knowing how much the person wants me to do at this point in the
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